You might be asking, “What is a pickup artist?” A pickup artist is basically a man who is armed with skills in attracting and seducing attractive women through the use of techniques. Interesting huh? Read on.
Women On Pedestal
If you have already gone through various dating books and online dating forums before, then you might have heard of some people talking about how men should never put women on a pedestal. Basically, all that this means is that you should never find yourself so head over heels in love with a woman’s charm or beauty that you end up valuing her more than you value yourself. If you do, you won’t just devalue yourself, but you will also increase your chances of getting rejected by the woman that you like, as well.
However, it isn’t just women that you should avoid placing on a pedestal. You might find yourself getting impressed by a lot of other people sometimes, too, because of certain abilities and traits that they have and that you don’t have. Remember: whenever you value somebody else more than you value yourself, you are actually undermining your self-worth. While there is nothing wrong with recognizing other people’s good looks or talents, you should never do so to the point where you no longer find yourself good-looking or talented. Unfortunately, this will do nothing but lead you to your own downfall in the end. This type of adoration could even turn to envy and spite if you aren’t careful.
Women And Weak Men
If you have already placed the woman that you like on a pedestal, though, then you need to get her off of it if you ever want her to date you in the future. Women generally aren’t interested in dating men who seem to be below them. Women also don’t get attracted to men who seem to be so nice. So, what you have to do is create an attitude and mindset where she feels lucky to just be in your presence. This means that you have to believe that she is lucky to be near you. Just take a look around you and see how incredibly gorgeous women always fawn over famous and rich men, and ignore the ones that worship them at their feet.
This is one of the reasons why celebrities never have to work too hard to attract women. They just be themselves and they draw women to them like bees to honey. This just goes to show how unimportant seduction routines and techniques actually are. All you really have to do is concentrate on becoming the kind of man that most women find attractive.
What to Do?
To do this, all you have to do is change your mindset and start seeing yourself as a man capable of being with any woman that he wants to be with. The truth is that you will never be able to date gorgeous women if you keep thinking that you aren’t capable of winning them over to begin with. Believe it or not, personal mind games are very important in this department. So, if you start changing how you think, then you should be able to reap positive results in no time. Besides, what have you got to lose by trying this out, anyway?
In other words, successful dating and seduction isn’t just thinking about you; it has to do with thinking about the woman that you like and what she likes, too. Of course, it wouldn’t hurt to wear nice clothes, go to respectable places, have exciting hobbies and keep your body fit, either.
Aside from that, you should also be able to keep conversations going without complimenting the woman that you are talking to too much. Tons of men out there mistakenly shower women with compliments about their looks, but this isn’t actually a good idea. So, no matter how strong the urge is to tell a woman that she looks incredibly good, you need to hold the compliments in. Letting them out will not leave a good impression on her – remember that. If you want to get a woman to like you, then you need to look past her looks and compliment her for her different personality traits instead.
Techniques in attracting women have evolved through time and newer pickup artists are very lucky to have access to newer and more effective ones.
Lastly, it would be vital for you to learn how to get over rejection as quickly as possible. Let’s face it. Gorgeous women are generally very picky because they know that they can date any man that they want. As such, you need to accept the fact that you might still get rejected by a gorgeous woman every now and then. You will also need to accept that rejection, in general, and not let it affect you too much. A lot of men tend to give up after getting rejected by a gorgeous woman, but you need to stand back up and just try and try again!
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