How To Keep A Conversation Going With A Girl

Published on December 24, 2015. Copyright Ⓒ Daniel C. Pullen. All rights reserved. Do not copy or distribute without permission.

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If you know to keep a conversation going with a girl, she'll be smitten with you for lifeA lot of guys are shy and thus have trouble making and keeping conversations with girl. Since they have no idea how to deal with small talk properly, they aren’t able to keep conversations going anymore. Unfortunately, if you don’t know how to keep a conversation going with a girl, you could end up ruining your conversation altogether and just make things awkward in the end.

If you need a few tips on how to keep your conversations alive, then read on.

Speak Calmly

When talking to a girl, it would be important not to force her to listen to whatever it is that you want to say. Instead, you have to figure out how to make her enjoy your conversations without raising your voice or shouting for attention. Not only will this frustrate the both of you, but she is also sure to lose interest pretty quickly if you do that. For more tips on what to talk about with a girl, click here.

Show the Right Amount of Interest

While it is important to show a girl that you are interested in what she has to say, it would also be important to let her know that you aren’t being nosy about her life. So, know your limits and avoid gossiping and fishing for information that she might not want to tell you. This will ensure a healthy flow of conversation at all times.

iStock_000003077423XSmallDon’t Bore Her to Death

When going out with a girl, your main goal should always be to impress her in some way. This means that you can’t bore her. Unfortunately, it isn’t always easy to tell whether a girl is getting bored with you or not because girls are good at hiding these things. So, if you want to ensure that she doesn’t get bored, then you have to avoid talking about yourself too much and ask her more about herself instead. Girls happen to love talking, so if you ask her a lot of questions and if she gets to talk about herself more, she will enjoy your company more in return.

Now, if you are the shy type, then you might not know that conversations needs to have a good flow in order to be deemed successful, as well. This means that you still need to talk during your conversations. Try to pitch in whenever you agree with something that she says and let her know that you are listening intently to what she is saying by laughing and making a few comments here and there. Without a doubt, learning how to converse with girls properly is something that requires practice. However, once you understand how the basics work, you are sure to enjoy talking to girls every time you do from then on.

Be Lively

To ensure that you don’t bore a girl to death, it would also be important to talk in an emphatic and energetic manner. Make sure you talk about new conversational topics, as well, such as news flashes and events. This will show her how broad your mind’s range is and that you care about what is happening in the world overall.

Do Not Fake Your Knowledge

When a topic of conversation comes up that you aren’t comfortable with or aren’t exactly familiar with, then don’t be afraid to say so or to subtly change the subject as needed. If you pretend to be interested in something that you’re not interested in or if you pretend to know something about something that you don’t, you are sure to fail in the end.

Discuss Other People

If you run out of topics to talk about, try talking about other people to save your conversation from dying, be it celebrities, common friends or even just the people around you. A lot of girls get a kick from coming up with stories about strangers around them, so this is sure to become a great bonding experience for the both of you.

Ask Good Questions

Good questions are absolutely vital at keeping conversations with girls alive, so make sure you keep yours going by asking the right questions. Ideally, you should start your questions with the words who, why, where, what, or how. This way, she won’t be able to just reply with a ‘yes’ or a ‘no’, but with proper answers that will be beneficial to your blossoming relationship.

Since open-ended questions like those require thoughtful, lengthy and proper answers from her, she will be encouraged to talk more. As mentioned earlier, girls love to talk anyway, so you can’t go wrong by encouraging her to do so. Plus, she is sure to be pleased to see that you are so interested in what she has to say – whether you actually are or not.

On that note, make it a point not to give out one-word answers, either. Even if a girl asks you a question that could easily be close-ended, do not limit yourself to one-word answers. Give some extra information whenever you can and add some little interesting tidbits that will grab and keep her attention. If you’re lucky, she might ask even more questions to get more information from you and lead your conversation even further.

Of course, you shouldn’t forget to show how interested you really are in hearing the answer to an open-ended question. To show her that you are genuinely interested, look at her attentively, make the necessary facial expressions, show your emotions clearly and make comments every now and then.

As you can see, learning how to keep a conversation going with a girl really isn’t that hard. Conversation is a gift; so do not build up any unnecessary barriers and obstacles that might stop you from conversing with a girl and slowly winning her over with your words. Remember: conversations are supposed to be fun and are meant to help you interact with girls and engage in conversations as a part of life. Once you get used to doing this, you shouldn’t have any trouble maintaining good conversations with girls anymore whenever you want to.

-Danny Pullen