Ten Signs She Likes You (How to Identify Interest Indicators)

Published on December 26, 2015. Copyright Ⓒ Daniel C. Pullen. All rights reserved. Do not copy or distribute without permission.

s part of our seduction curricula for new joiners of the PUADatabase Advanced Seduction Program (ASP), we devote two entire days to what we call the identification of “indicators of interest” (or known as IOI in attraction lexicon). Indeed, calibrating a girl’s feelings for you is very important – because it gives you the CLARITY on what your next move should be. If you don’t know whether a girl likes you or not, then you’re just flying blind, and that’s bad news!

However, if you find it hard to know if a girl likes you or not, it’s not your fault.

Without a doubt, it can be quite hard to figure out how a girl really feels if she isn’t the type of girl who likes talking about her feelings. And trust me on this – even if a girl likes you, you’ll be hard pressed to get her to admit to it! If you have just asked your crush out or are currently dating somebody new, then you’re violating PUADatabase.com’s cardinal rule of seduction – because ONLY NEEDY MEN ASK WOMEN FOR APPROVAL. Don’t do that!


It’s easy to know if she really likes you if you know how!



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Before you go balls deep and use a technique like fractionation in order to hack into the girl’s mind and make her like you immediately, you should first gauge whether she already has got some feelings for you. Indeed, using a powerful technique like fractionation (or other hypnosis based tactics like Derek Rake’s stuff or the October Man Sequence) can be an OVERKILL which could make things worse for you.


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Identifying The Ten Indicators Of Interest (IOIs) – The PUADatabase.com Way

irst things first. What you should know to begin with is that girls tend to use a lot of body language to send signs of interest to the opposite sex. In other words, the body language and actions that a girl uses in your presence can actually tell you a lot about how she feels. This is where the ten signs she likes you will come in especially handy. Read on to find out what they are…

IOI #1. You have her full attention whenever you speak.

If a girl always listens to you when you have something to say and gives you her full attention whenever you speak, you can be sure that really she likes you. Girls connect on both physical and emotional level after all (yes, even for friends with benefits). So, if she keeps asking you questions and listens to your conversations, then you can be sure that she is genuinely interested in you, your life and how you feel.

PUADatabase girl IOI #2. She twiddles with her hair.

One very common yet totally unconscious sign that a girl is flirting with you is if she touches her hair whenever you talk. Girls who hang out with guys that they like unintentionally touch their hair, run their fingers through it or twirl their hair strands absentmindedly to look more attractive and more feminine towards the opposite sex.

IOI #3. She gives you her phone number.

Unless you are in a business meeting, wherein exchanging numbers may be of the utmost importance, you can be sure that a girl likes you if she gives you her phone number and tells her that you can get in touch with her anytime. If things go well after that, she may even start to send out hints that she is willing to go on a date with you.

Make sure you pay attention to these hints, though, because a lot of girls out there still aren’t comfortable asking guys out. Even if she is dying to go on a date with you, she may still wait for you to bring it up and ask her out.

Note that this is also applicable to online dating, although there are some subtle but important differences that you must observe. Click here.

IOI #4. She gets playful and flirty.

Girls do not just get physical when they flirt; they also flirt through words and actions. So, if a girl likes you, she may make more of an effort at making you life by being a bit childish and playful. In fact, a lot of girls do this with hopes of building a special connection with guys that they like.

It’s also important to know how the females “view” flirting – read this article on Huffington Post for the woman’s perspective.

IOI #5. She maintains eye contact.

A girl will only maintain strong eye contact with a guy if she really likes him. This is because they associate eye contact with a deeper connection and a feeling of closeness. This happens on a subconscious level, of course. Women won’t do it knowingly, of course, unless she’s a player herself. 😉

IOI #6. She stays close to you.

PUADatabase.com girlA girl will only stay close to a guy if she really likes him. This is because girls like being near people that make them feel comfortable and happy. So, if she stays close to you, even when there is a lot of space around you, that just goes to show that she feels safe and secure around you – a sign that she really likes you.

If she didn’t like you, she will definitely make it a point to maintain some distance between you, so that you can get the hint that she isn’t romantically interested in you. Also, if both of you are seated, and she faces away from you, it’s a sign of disinterest.

IOI #7. She finds excuses to touch you.

Girls will always touch you to show you genuine affection and interest. This can be a light touch on the hand or on the arm, or even just a pat in the back. Either way, frequent touches from a girl are sure signs that she is interested in you.

IOI #8. She is everywhere.

If a girl likes you, you will notice that she is constantly around, even if you do not invite her or notice her being there in the beginning. If you go to school or to work together, then you may notice her passing by your desk more often than not for example. Girls tend to do this with hopes of getting a guy’s attention.

IOI #9. She is incredibly nice to you.

In the world of traditional dating, guys are expected to reach out to girls and be incredibly nice to them. This involves asking them out on dates and helping them out with certain problems, amongst other things.

Now, if a girl starts offering to take you out to lunch or bring you coffee before work, then you can be sure that she likes you in some way. Girls may be used to receiving acts of kindness from guys, but if they go out of their way to do the same for a guy, then that is usually only because they like that guy.

IOI #10. She seems nervous around you.

Like you, girls get nervous whenever they are around someone that they like. The only difference is that girls are much better at hiding their anxiety, in general. So, if you want to find out to find out if a girl is feeling ‘positive-nervous’ around you, try looking for signs of excitement whenever you are with her. She might start talking faster than usual or acting happy when there really isn’t anything that she should be happy about.

Conversely, though, if she is starting to show a negative kind of anxiety around you, then you will need to take heeds because she might find you creepy or might just not like being around you, in general. Fortunately, it isn’t hard to tell the difference between positive and negative nervousness, so there’s no need to get worried that you are misinterpreting her signs in any way.

What Next?

espite the common belief, you do NOT need her to display many of these indicators of interest for you to be successful with her. In fact, we have had clients here at PUADatabase.com who had success even with two or less of the attraction signals above. Here’s how…

Once you have identified some level of interest, you should “fire” your big gun and go for the jugular! There’s absolutely no time to waste, and given women’s natural propensity to be fickle minded, it’s important for you to immediately make a strong impact, build more attraction and close the deal with her. You can do this using the fractionation technique.

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But before you use fractionation, remember this…

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