What To Talk About With A Girl – Seven Conversational Attraction Tips From The Pros

Published on December 25, 2015. Copyright Ⓒ Daniel C. Pullen. All rights reserved. Do not copy or distribute without permission.

ey man, Danny here. Are you having trouble figuring out what to talk about with a girl? Do you need some advice on having and keeping conversations with a girl that you like? Without a doubt, it can be hard to start a conversation – especially with a girl that you’ve already taken a fancy. But don’t worry – PUADatabase has got you covered! With these surefire conversational seduction techniques, you’ll be far ahead of the 99% of the clueless men out there who don’t know what they are doing. 😉


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Seven Conversational Attraction Tips

You see, young grasshopper – if you have trouble starting and keeping a conversation with girls and can therefore never make a girl like you, and you will be destined to live the life of a single hermit forever. We ain’t gonna let that happen!



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Conversational Seduction by Derek Rake

She will be watching what comes out from your mouth!

Every aspiring seducer out there must learn this basic skill – not only for seduction, but also in order to get ahead of life. So, in this PUADatabase mini-guide (written in collaboration with our good friends from SonicSeduction®), you can find seven (7!) conversational attraction tips from the pros that can turn you into a master conversational seductionist in no time at all.

Technique #1. The Anti-Creep Factor.

Beautiful woman

You may want to avoid creeping up on her

The hotter girls know how to be careful around guys – since they get hit on almost all the time anywhere they go. This means that they probably already have barriers ready to put up for whenever weird creeps try to approach them.

Of course, if you know fractionation (see the guide above) then you’ll be able to break down her initial defense when you approach her. I don’t recommend this all the time, but some slight hypnosis will greatly help any guy especially when the girl has got anti-creep defense on.

Now if you don’t know fractionation, then it would be best to always just be friendly when approaching a girl. Not only will you end up looking trustworthy in their eyes this way, but you will also prove to them that you have nothing to hide from them.

This will, in turn, make girls more willing to open up and share intimate details with you in the long run opposed to if you approached them in a flirty (read: creepy) manner.

Technique #2. Light As The Wind.

Now you’re able to approach the girl of your dreams (using fractionation or otherwise), then it’s time to strike up a meaningful conversation with her. You should come prepared and have a laundry list of “light topics” to talk about which should suit any occasion and situation.

  • Location-specific topics
  • Seasonal topics
  • Opinion / advice solicitation
  • Cold reading / esoteric (advanced)
  • Fractionation – often coupled with soft hypnosis (advanced)

While it is important to keep your conversations light, you also have to make it a point to stay on point at all times. All that this means is that you have to make sure that you keep keeping the conversations going and don’t let random unexpected lulls ruin it.

Advanced conversational seducers will use “multiple conversational stacks” and introduce some mild hypnosis (see Derek Rake’s October Man Sequence) in order to keep the girl enthralled.

To do this, keep your tone fun and light and always look around for things that you can bring up and talk about. This way, you won’t just keep coming up with new things to talk about, but you will also be able to get the girl’s mind off of other things completely. This would definitely be a huge plus if she wasn’t in the best of moods to begin with.

Of course, a good sense of humor will help, too – but don’t overdo it. We have often found that humor can be a seduction killer. You want the girl to laugh WITH you, not AT you. Big difference!

Technique #3. Empathy.

A lot of guys tend to listen to girls with their ears full, but you really have to listen to a girl if you want to win her over eventually. A girl is sure to grant you brownie points if she can see that you can talk and listen to her with ease. The best part is that you will become a better listener, in general, once you master this particular skill.

Even if you’re a bad listener, PRETEND to be a good one. Fake it!

Technique #4. The Laser Beam.

This is related to the Empathy technique above. You see, girls won’t like it if they share their deepest thoughts with you and you respond in a completely unrelated way afterwards. So, make sure you focus on her words, save yourself the humiliation and be deemed as an awesome guy in the end.

Girls happen to love guys who can focus on them and can really keep up with what they have to say. Don’t get scatter-brained!

Technique #5. The Thicker Skin.

Effective tips on how to talk to her!

The professional conversational seducer CAN’T be shy!

It is no secret that a lot of guys in today’s day and age are quite shy – and that is probably the number one sticking point of PUADatabase readers, no joke!

If you happen to be one of these guys and have trouble approaching girls, let alone talk to them, then you need to start harnessing positive male traits for a change to counter that shyness and get rid of it for good.

Remember this: girls will never be interested in guys who shy away from them. Never, ever!

We have PUADatabase students who also use hypnosis NOT only on women, but also on themselves to cure themselves of their shyness.

What you have to do is start displaying some positive traits, such as interest and confidence, instead. In other words, if you want girls to find you attractive as you talk to them, you have to completely overcome your shyness. One easy way to do this would be to randomly start up conversations with everybody that you meet. Believe it or not, talking to a lot of different people will help you become more comfortable around girls and wih conversations, in general.

All that you need to keep in mind when it comes to this is that success breeds confidence. So, if you can get people interest in what you have to say, you shouldn’t have any trouble ditching your shyness in no time and become the ultimate confident male who can win girls over with ease.

Technique #6. Capture Her Interest

Not being shy isn’t enough, though. You have to stop being boring, too; otherwise, you could instantly ruin your chances of winning over the girl that you like. Remember: being boring is the cardinal sin of seduction!

Now let’s face it: if you want to attract a girl, you have to seem interesting and not boring in any way. So, make sure you tell interesting stories and ask provocative questions every once in a while. And of course, with fractionation you won’t be facing this problem as you will be “hacking” into her mind and making her like you immediately.

Technique #7. The Ultimate Flirt

This is one of the most important tips out there, so listen up. While it is important to keep conversations going, you shouldn’t make them sound like total interviews or anything. A lot of guys seem to think that holding conversations with a girl entails nothing but asking questions and getting answers, but this definitely isn’t the case. In fact, interview-type conversations don’t build attraction with girls in any way.

If you really want to create and build attraction, all you really have to do is flirt with the girl that you are eyeing. Remember:  you have to build attraction and sexual chemistry at the same time and to get this done, you will need to know how to flirt very well.

Generally speaking, every conversation that you have with a girl should be used to build attraction with her in the end. So, make sure you use the seven conversational tips mentioned above to win your dream girl’s heart over in no time. And of course, if you want a “shortcut” of sorts that will immediately catapult you into the big leagues with women, you can always learn how to use the deadliest seduction technique ever – fractionation! <- click this!

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